Yesterday after reading
Vikki's blog about Red Thread of Fate, I found myself thinking about this ancient belief. It is a Chinese/Japanese legend.
"An invisible red thread connects those who are destined to meet, regardless of time, place, or circumstance. The thread may stretch or tangle, but it will never break." (Wikipedia)I also love what Vikki wrote:
"God Tied You and I Together By Our Little Fingers With A Long Red String. This Bond of Destiny Can Not Be Seen And There Is No Map To You. So I Will Fall In Love With You When I Meet You" 
It made me feel really happy believing it... Knowing that at the end of the red thread there is someone for me...Maybe I cannot meet that person in my lifetime, but I am not lonely... I realized how much pressure I put on myself for months. These days I feel more at ease, because I stopped being impatient about finding the right person... (Thank you for your help)