Tuesday, February 23, 2010

Being Part of a Lie

1.....2.....3...*breathe*
 I received a message from my friend. She needed help with her "work". I was a little surprised, because our fields and jobs are completely different and aren't we adults now? Isn't it a little childish to ask your friend to help with your work instead of a colleague at work? I spent 3-4 hours doing her job, instead of my own job.

3...4...5.... *breathe*
Later she told me that it was actually her boyfriend's work, her boyfriend was too busy, he asked her to do it, and she was too busy too and could not do the job properly, and that is why she sent it to me.

6....7.....8....*deep breathe*
She thanked me a lot. Then wrote: "I am going out with my boyfriend this weekend. I told everyone that I will going out with you, I am writing to you to let you know".

....9....
I replied to her "I don't want to be a part of a lie, I appreciate if you don't use my name next time"

Sometimes I think of breaking the ties with her completely. But then I think, "I don't have any other friend". I guess I don't want to believe that our friendship is a lie, just like among many lies she tells everyday...